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When you are at the bottom of your life, and there really isn’t much to lose, it would be useful to visualize on what you want from life instead of what really scares you. Because once you are at the bottom, visualizing what worst case scenarios if more of a reminder than a scare.

For people whose lives have more space to be worse, could use the possibility of it getting worse as a reason to avoid it. And since fear is a great motivator as it generates desperation for getting out of crappy situations, it is a useful tactic.

But you are right with what you said about positive visualizations and happiness. It would be more useful for people who are depressed just as Zeenat stated.

Thank you for your dedicated feedback, Eirien I appreciate it.

Steven

I knew you’d agree with me! I’m glad I met you too, you are a force of awesome.

Steven

I’m a extremely glad that my post and site has that kind of impact of peoples’ lives. I thank you very much for coming here and reading what I have to say.

And remember whatever it is you are experiencing, it won’t last forever. There is always a way and there is always hope. I can promise you that. I’ve felt there was no hope at one point in my life, and I am very glad that once I got out of it I can share with people from what I’ve learned.

And I am just so happy to see messages like yours, because it means the wish I have for people to be happy is becoming more like a reality now.

Thank you for your response, I hope my posts/site will be more of help later on.

Steven

So, I’m basically agreeing with you. Again, while I don’t purposely try to visualize bad outcomes, I DEFINITELY make many decisions to get LESS pain in my life. I hope that made sense!

I’m really glad I met you, Steven, you are a force for good!
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Good to see you here again.

Simple is good…less is more! xD

Steven

Thank you so much for visiting my blog I’m glad that this post made you chuckle and understand at the same time. *SUCCESS!*

Anyways, I welcome you anytime on my blog, and I hope I will make you laugh more during the future with my silly comics!

Steven

I know what you mean with the reality. I agree with you, we need to know our present situations in life, and sometimes if things are doing so well…then they really just aren’t doing so well. That is when we need to step up face reality in the face and do something about our problems. Instead of fantasizing about what good things could happen in the future.

Thank you for the comment Armen,

Steven